It is Always Happening

All of us get disappointed at some point. We get disappointed with ourselves, or our ability to accomplish, our school or instructor, our hobby or interest. We set goalposts, and feel like we never quite reach them.

This is especially true for those who practice a martial art. We may obtain a belt or rank, but we still feel we are not “there” yet. Why did Jane get to that stage faster than I did? Why does Joe handle this particular aspect better than me? When will it happen for me? These questions are normal, especially when we set specific marks and compare ourselves with others. They are normal questions, normal disappointments, but they are not healthy nor realistic.

TAO - Training Assistance OnlineIt never happens. There is no magic spell to learn which will suddenly make you Super Saiyan. We should not set goalposts and expectations. Instead, set your sights on the horizon. The horizon is always ahead of you, impossible to reach – but it is always there – a target forward, onward. Your journey in the martial arts is one of self-exploration and self-expansion. As long as you train, you grow. The moment you feel you have reached a goalpost, you stop training and stop growing. If you set your sight on the horizon, you keep going. Small, semi-magical moments are picked up along the journey. They may seem insignificant at the time because they logically connect to the information you had previously acquired. It has not happened for you, because it never really happens – it is always happening.

Keep training.

It’s Wing Chun – Relax.

Sifu

About Sifu

I teach Wing Chun, both traditional and practical, at KDA Karate Academy. I have a Bachelor of Media Arts degree from USC. I have been an Audio Producer / Engineer, a Law Office Manager. In addition to being a Martial Arts Instructor, I am an author. My new book, "Astro Boy, Sensei, and Me" is available now, as is my Sci-Fi joy ride, "On a Sphere's Edge".

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